Hear AJ's take on this listener's dilemma.

"My husband spends too much time with his male friends and never invites me to their get-togethers. I want to know what they're doing."

Well, I'd want to know what they're doing too! Seriously, I think you have every right to be curious about what he's up to with his buddies.

Of course he's entitled to some time with just his guy friends...but I get the impression from your note that you're NEVER invited, which to me is a little weird. There should definitely be a balance there. Do his buddies have girlfriends or wives? If you haven't already, maybe you should try all hanging out together.

My opinion - if he NEVER invites you...that's a little fishy.

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