Ask AJ: My Husband Hates Shopping With Me!
He's been lying to me this whole time...should I be mad?
"My husband and I have been married for 10 years and have always enjoyed going shopping together... At least I thought he enjoyed it. He just dropped a bomb on me that he actually hates it. I'm confused about why he pretended to like something that he didn't, and I'm bummed to lose my shopping partner."
So, here's what I have to say to that...you're lucky that he faked liking it for 10 years! Chances are he was miserable every time he went with you.
He was probably not telling you how much he hated it because he was trying to keep the peace. He was trying to meet you in the middle!
So be grateful for the times he went with you...and maybe find a girlfriend to go shopping with you next time!