Ask AJ: I’m Living A Lie With My Man
AJ reveals what's REALLY going on in the mind of a man.
"I'm basically living a lie with my man, pretending to like the things that he likes. The truth is: I don't like going to sports bars and watching baseball games, and I hate his music. Should I tell him the truth?"
A lot of times for Ask AJ, we talk about compromise...how quite often the answer is meeting your partner in the middle. However, that advice doesn't work in this situation. It has to do with personal taste, and if you don't like something, you don't like something.
You can't pretend to like music you don't like. Same goes with sports. Well, you can pretend to like these things...but eventually, the truth will come out. And the longer you take to fess up, the bigger of an issue it will be to deal with.
I think the best thing for you to do is come clean as soon as possible. The sooner you get it out of the way, the better.